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Kristi said in April 22nd, 2011 at 11:18 am

WOW! that was the most beautifully written Truth!!!!!!!!!! Love the fact that words of affirmation from God keep hittin’ this blog! He knows my love language! thanks Steve! You’re the bomb!

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mpithy said in April 22nd, 2011 at 3:41 pm

Yes, Christians should be aware of their ultimate destination when they believe in Christ as their Savior and Lord, but they also have a right to grieve. Why put them to shame for missing someone?
After my husband died at Christmas-time it took me 4 years to “like” Christmas again.

What if we don’t know if our loved one was saved? I suppose that gets put on the grieving Christians’ back, too? “well, why didn’t YOU share the Good News of Christ with them?”

Maybe I never had the opportunity, or – worse – maybe my loved one denied Christ. What then?

This article, though containing some uplifting prose, is written from a self-righteous attitude of one who believes they “get” Christ better than just about everyone else. The author probably isn’t welcome at too many funerals because they won’t tolerate grieving.

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Steve said in April 23rd, 2011 at 10:10 pm

mpithy – your comments are difficult to engage because they fail to engage the point of the post. No where is it suggested that grief is not a proper response to the loss of a loved one. No where is anyone shamed for missing someone. No where is anyone blamed for the death of a loved one apart from Christ. If anything, your comment highlights one of the posts points as it has indeed served as a Rorschach revealing quite a bit about your inner state. I am very sorry for you loss. I pray that the glory and joy of Easter will be yours tomorrow.

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mpithy said in April 23rd, 2011 at 10:16 pm

Steve – I want to apologize for some of my comments yesterday. I wish I hadn’t said you were self-righteous and not welcome at funerals.

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Steve said in April 23rd, 2011 at 10:26 pm

Not too worry – I’ve been called worse, and with good cause. Have a blessed day tomorrow.

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Joshua said in April 24th, 2011 at 4:10 pm

The distance between glorified spirits in heaven and militant saints on earth seems great; but it is not so. We are not far from home—a moment will bring us there.

I haven’t heard our lives described in that manner… how freeing is that? Very.